Friday, November 23, 2018

Ten Qualities For Attracting A Deep Connection

Seeking a life partner is an essential desire in humans. It can also be an area of stress for many. Developing or having certain qualities help us attract a deeper connection. The following video talks about ten signs you’re ready for twin flame union. Though the presenter uses the term sign, I see them as qualities that we can hone or develop within us. If you don’t believe in terms like soul mate, twin flames, etc., just replace it with "deep and meaningful connection."


Summary:

  1. You are in the present moment
  2. Releasing expectations, judgments and attachments
  3. Trusting in the divine (or, release the control)
  4. Lucid dreams
  5. Doing the self-work
  6. You have stopped running (Overcoming fear of intimacy, commitment, rejection, etc.)
  7. You have stopped settling for less
  8. When you are being honest with yourself
  9. Realizing they are you
  10. You are Love


Friday, July 6, 2018

A Talk on Well Being

On Sunday, 24 June, 2018 I gave a talk on mental and emotional well being to cancer patients and care givers at the Tata Memorial Hospital in Mumbai. This event was organized by an NGO, The Max Foundation. It was a support group meeting for patients with CML and GIST that are supported by them.


Viji Venkatesh (right most) who heads The Max Foundation in India 
welcomed me and two other guest presenters


Participants practicing mindfulness exercise

Receiving a token of appreciation from a representative of The Max Foundation



Monday, June 15, 2015

Life After Delivery

In a mother's womb were two babies.

One asked the other: "Do you believe in life after delivery?"

The other replies, "Yes there has to be something after delivery. Maybe we are here to prepare ourselves for what we will be later.

"Nonsense," says the other. "There is no life after delivery. What would that life be?"

"I don't know, but there will be more light than here. Maybe we will walk with our legs and eat from our mouths."

"This is absurd! Walking is impossible. And eat with our mouths? Ridiculous. The umbilical cord feeds us.  Besides, no one has ever come back from there. Delivery is the end of life, and in the after-delivery there is nothing but darkness."

"Well, I don't know," says the first baby, "but certainly we will see mother and she will take care of us."

"Mother? You believe in mother? Where is she now? “

"She is all around us. It is in her that we live. Without her there would not be this world."

"I don't see her, so it's only logical that she doesn't exist."

"Sometimes when you're in silence you can hear her, you can perceive her."

So, is there life after delivery?

In this physical life we talk of life after death. Some talk of reincarnation and some talk of heaven and some say don’t talk about it. We will find out when we will find out. I feel that the physical life is a preparation to experience higher consciousness. Shri Aurobindo refers to higher consciousness as divine mother. In one of his talks he said:

“The Mother's presence is always there; but if you decide to act on your own -- your own idea, your own notion of things, your own will and demand upon things, then it is quite likely that her presence will get veiled; it is not she who withdraws from you, but you who draw back from her.”

When you sit in meditation… when you still your mind and become completely silent you can hear her, you can perceive her.


Reference:
The baby’s conversation is based on a parable told by Rabbi Y M Tuckachinsky